[With my older son in the midst of his high school cross-country season, and both sons gearing up for their next seasons of indoor and then outdoor track, running has become a huge part of this AmericanStudier’s life these days. But it’s long been part of both my life and America overall, so this week I’ll AmericanStudy different sides of running, leading up to a very special Guest Post from one of those aforementioned youthful AmericanStudiers!]
On a
childhood influence who exemplifies the best of community.
Of the
handful of experiences that have been genuinely defining across the course of
my 45 years, I think long-distance running is likely the one about which I’ve
written the least in this space (prior to this week’s series, that is). There’s
a reason for that: the last consistent running I did (outside of on treadmills
at various gyms, anyway, which really is an entirely different animal from
running outside) was my senior year in high school, more than 25 years ago (he
typed with a gasp). But for the seven years before that, starting in 6th
grade when my Mom and I trained for our first Charlottesville 10-Miler together
(a race we would run almost every year between that one and my senior year),
and including my three years on the CHS cross-country team (about which I did
write, in a very different context, in this
post on my experiences of hazing during my freshman year),
long-distance running was as consistent a part of my pre-teen and teenage life
as anything.
I will
always associate running first and foremost with a community of two: my Mom and
I, out there on early mornings, often with our dog Tiah. These days, as the
upcoming Guest Post will illustrate, I’m also coming to associate it with a
community of three, as my sons have become part of their high school
cross-country (my older son) and track (both of them) teams. But in the broader
community of Charlottesville runners, of which we became part through those Ten
Milers and many other road races over the years, there was another figure who
absolutely and beautifully came to symbolize running to me: Mark
Lorenzoni. Along with his wife
Cynthia, a seriously successful long-distance
runner in her own right, Mark started and operated Ragged
Mountain Running Shop, a store that became and remains a
Charlottesville institution (we just got my younger son some new running shoes
there while we were in town last summer). But he also and especially became the
most vocal and dedicated supporter of all things running in Cville, and most
especially of young runners.
“The
loneliness of the long-distance runner” is a clichéd but in many ways accurate
phrase, not just because of the short
story and film of
that name, but because compared to many sports running is a profoundly
individual endeavor, one where the battle is most fully against the voices in
our own heads. Nothing and no one can entirely change that fundamental nature,
not a running partner, not a team of fellow high school runners, and not
cheering crowds as the Ten Miler (for example) always drew. But at the same
time, given how much of teenage life can already feel isolated and lonely, it’s
pretty important that we find ways to make sure young runners (and all runners,
but in some particular ways young runners especially) also feel solidarity and
support, the best kinds of community and comradery. Mark did that amazingly
well, not just through formal events but through his very presence and voice,
before races, after races, during races, and at so many other moments along the
way. I can only hope that my sons find similar influences in their burgeoning
running careers—and am determined to do whatever I can to carry Mark’s legacies
forward.
Next
RunningStudying tomorrow,
Ben
PS. What
do you think? Running connections or contexts you’d share?
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