Saturday, November 22, 2025

November 22-23, 2025: AmericanStudying Closeted Gay Celebrities

[On November 17th, 1925, Roy Harold Scherer Jr.—better known as Rock Hudson—was born. His iconic career and complex life open up a lot of American histories, so this week I’ve AmericanStudied a handful of them, leading up to this weekend post on other 20C gay celebrities who lived their lives in the closet.]

Quick takeaways from five complex lives (in chronological order of their birth years).

1)      Cary Grant (1904-1986): Every one of the entries in this post will have at least some ambiguity, but none more so than the legendary actor who was born Archibald Leish in Bristol, England, but refashioned himself into one of the mid-century’s true icons. Grant lived with a fellow actor, Randolph Scott, for a dozen years, and by all accounts told multiple friends and family members that he was in love with Scott. But he also was married to five different women across his life. Was he bisexual? Were those marriages all beards? Biographers disagree, but one thing seems clear: Grant’s public persona and private life were nearly as distinct as those of the main character in North By Northwest.

2)      Liberace (1919-1987): In the late 1950s, the legendary pianist and showman successfully sued the British newspaper The Daily Mirror for libel after gossip columnist Cassandra (the pen name for William Connor) strongly implied that he was gay. He would similarly sue and settle with the U.S. gossip magazine Confidential over their frequent such allegations, including a July 1957 cover story “Why Liberace’s Theme Song Should Be ‘Mad About the Boy!’” Liberace’s homosexuality is far less ambiguous or disputed than Cary Grant’s, and so the ambiguity here is what we do with such lawsuits—whether we see them for example as expressions of his own tortured inner psyche, or as instead the kinds of media control with which Grant’s agent Henry Willson was so adept.

3)      Montgomery Clift (1920-1966): In this case of this Hollywood screen icon, who passed away tragically young from a heart attack, the ambiguity is interconnected with his most famous professional and personal relationship. Clift and Elizabeth Taylor were very close, starring together in three romantic 1950s films and maintaining a famously tight off-screen friendship (and perhaps more) throughout. So when Taylor said, while being honored at the 2000 GLAAD Media Awards for her LGBTQ+ advocacy, that Clift had been gay, the admission was both surprising and seemingly accurate. Yet the details of his life and relationships seem to suggest at least bisexuality, another reminder of how difficult it is to tell the life story of closeted public figures.

4)      Robert Reed (1932-1992): As part of a 2000 ABC News piece entitled “The Real Mike Brady,” Reed’s Brady Bunch costar and on-screen wife Florence Henderson remarked, “Here he was, the perfect father of this wonderful little family, a perfect husband. Off camera, he was an unhappy person—I think had Bob not been forced to live this double life, I think it would have dissipated a lot of that anger and frustration. I never asked him. I never challenged him. I had a lot of compassion for him because I knew how he was suffering with keeping this secret.” I’ve blogged before about sitcom dads, and it’s particularly interesting to think (as Henderson certainly does in that quote) about the experiences of an actor playing that kind of iconically heteronormative role while living as a closeted gay man.

5)      Freddie Mercury (1946-1991): As compared with earlier icons like Grant and Clift, Freddie Mercury’s bisexuality seems to have become pretty well-established in the years after his tragic death from AIDS. But not if you watch the recent acclaimed film biopic Bohemian Rhapsody (2018), which portrays Mercury as almost entirely gay (with one influential early relationship with a woman). Indeed, the film’s Mercury says to that woman, Mary Austin, that he “might be bisexual,” to which she replies, “Freddie, you’re gay.” Clearly cultural representations of these figures are just as complicated and fraught as were the stories and lives themselves!

Thanksgiving series starts Monday,

Ben

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