On the character
who embodies and yet also complicates a sexist stereotype.
When I was
planning this week’s series, and thinking about what common characters and
phrases came to mind for both “Uncle” and “Aunt,” one of the first that I
thought of was “maiden
aunt.” As that definition suggests, the phrase typically means more than
simply an unmarried female relative—it has generally connoted a naïve lack of
experience, a life that has been sheltered and cut off from the world’s
realities. That connotation comes with a long history, one that in an
AmericanStudies vein I would connect for example to the 19th century
concept of the “New
England spinster.” It’s also overtly sexist on multiple levels, not only in
relying on and amplifying such carticatured images of older women, but in the
concurrent implication that it is only through marriage that such women could
gain knowledge and life experience, and that an unmarried life entails the
absence of such elements and growth.
Walker Percy’s National Book Award-winning
debut novel The
Moviegoer (1961) is set in neither the 19th century nor New
England—its titular protagonist, John “Binx” Bolling, is a Korean War veteran
living in his native New Orleans, working as a stockbroker but spending most of
his time watching movies, having affairs with secretaries, and contemplating
the meaning of his unsatisfactory life. But one of the novel’s handful of
significant characters seems like an embodiment of this maiden aunt
stereotype—Binx’s Aunt Emily (actually his great aunt, but he calls her “Aunt
Emily”), known to most characters in the novel as Miss Emily, is an elderly,
unmarried woman who lives alone in a large New Orleans mansion, and who has
throughout Binx’s life “seemed to have all the time in the world and [has been]
willing to talk about anything I wanted to talk about” (something Binx thought
about her at the age of 8 and that apparently has remained true ever since).
Moreover, she seems poised to pass the mantle of this role onto Binx’s cousin
Kate, an isolated, depressed, and even suicidal young woman who has become
Emily’s protégé.
Percy’s novel
has been accused
of sexism, and there’s no question that both Emily and Kate are
stereotypical female characters in various ways, and Binx’s secretary conquests
even more so. Yet on the other hand, Binx himself is deeply and fundamentally
flawed, a character whose seemingly happy and successful façade masks
deep-seated insecurities and absences—and it is Emily herself who sees through
Binx’s surface and to those flaws most clearly and potently (a vision she
likewise passes on to Kate). Which is to say, if there is one thing Aunt Emily
is not is it naïve or inexperienced, lacking knowledge of the world—she is
instead by far the
novel’s most wise character (one
based in part, it seems, on Percy’s late father), and one who brings that
wisdom to bear in practical and blunt terms with her great-nephew. It’s far
from coincidental that Binx ends the novel engaged to marry Kate (they’re
distant enough cousins)—while not a perfectly happy ending nor a guarantee of a
bright future for either Binx or Kate, the marriage is at the very least the
clearest way he can carry forward the legacy of his Aunt Emily.
Last uncle/aunt
tomorrow,
Ben
PS.
Thoughts on this aunt? Other uncle/aunt connections you’d highlight?